Guess who’s back? First, apologies for my absence, sometimes life takes over and things get postponed. With that said, I am happy to pick up where I have left off…which was where exactly? Not sure because I never have much of a plan as its is always random thoughts that pop into my head.
I was recently thinking about positions and which positions I enjoy now versus my youth. I do not really know if it is really related to age but I think when we are young, we think we can do ANYTHING! LITERALLY! We will twist, turn, stand up, sit down, bend over, lean back, and damn near break our neck.
Partially, I still feel this way as we all want to please our partner. But just like my time constraints mentioned in a previous post…I have limitations as to how many positions I am interested in doing. The end product is always the same, so why must we take the long route to get there? If the pussy is good, we don’t need to do all that. Of course, I will repeat, changing it up is necessary from time to time to avoid “routine”, but not EVERYDAY. Can’t a chic just get some simple missionary or give you a good ride?
Remember K.I.S.S (Keep It Simple Stupid)…it goes a long way!
Ladies…I am not going to sugar coat this next topic because I feel like it’s detrimental to any successful sexual relationship. We have to give men what they want which is (are you ready?)….<drumroll>….a TIGHT WET pussy!!
No man wants to just fall in and as a woman, you should want to feel every inch of him. Every time you have sex should feel like the first time minus the pain and/or bleeding…but really that is the goal. Well, maybe that’s just MY goal.
I will just let you know at least two things that are full proof, hands down the best ways to achieve this.
First thing…Kegels. This should be the most important exercise of the day that should be done everyday. The best part is that you can do it at any time of the day. Of course, most women know about Kegels so I will not tell you how to do them. I am just saying you MUST do them.
Second…hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! Water is the key to our bodily functions and a wet pussy is one of them! Trust me, I drink a gallon daily. There is no better feeling than that moment a man is inside of you and lets you know how wet it is.
Really these two things are no-brainers and I hope are a part of every woman’s routine not just for sexual pleasure but overall health. So, drink your water and squeeze those muscles. Cause when you squeeze their dick, he may just come quick….and then you can rest to do it all over again.
Time is a funny thing as sometimes we tend to forget how quickly it goes, and once we notice, we break into a long soliloquy as to how precious it is and should enjoy every moment as it comes.
I totally agree that time is precious and all…. MY time should also not be wasted. I have heard women go on and on about how they don’t want no minute man and on the same hand, men believe that they have to fuck like it’s a goddamn marathon.
What does fucking for hours actually achieve? Other than dry mouth and sweat? Or to see how many ways your body can be contorted?
Personally, I have a time limit. I make it known to most guys that I do not like to exceed 20 minutes, and most times, they think I am joking. Whilst in the act, they soon learn that I am not. Boredom strikes and frustration sets in……wooooouuuulllllld you puhleeeeeeze BUST A NUT!!! I literally shut down and the constant stroking is like hearing the sound of the second hand of your watch tick-tick-tick…..okay, maybe it’s not quite that bad.
Point is…the end result is the same right? So, why prolong it? It is interesting that I read in the magazine, Men’s Health, that the minimum duration of sex including seduction, foreplay, and intercourse should be about 30 minutes. The heavens opened up!!! YES!! It also noted that the average man last about 14 minutes during intercourse (well, bring him over here) and that men do not have to go that long to satisfy a woman. YES!! I do not need you huffin’ and puffin’ over me, on the side of me, or behind me for hours!
Now, for those of you that like those long, drawn out sexcapades….have at it! AS for me, I will be sitting pretty and/or possibly spooning for approximately 10 minutes after my 20 minutes or less sexual cardio session has ended.